Why cant i get an orgasm

I am a 29 year old male married to a wonderful woman. We find that many women who have never been able to have an orgasm are able to achieve one when using a vibrator on their clitoris. Sex is a place to de stress, to release stress, not the place to get stressed out. There are a lot of likely reasons for that, including:. Visit your doctor to rule out these causes. Healthy tips for a happy sex life.

Connect with me on LinkedIn. But it's not easy to do if you're uptight, tired, stressed or unhappy in your relationship. And these circumstances usually include having a caring, understanding partner who's knowledgeable about sex and who uses that knowledge to help her relax and to reach orgasm.