Is oral sex losing your virginity

Shea Hi, I've been where you are and let me tell you, I really wanted to believe that I was still a virgin. God created a special bond for marriage and when you have sex outside of marriage you create that bond with someone else. Originally Posted by Jophiel Sure, who cares? Can they take a break for a few seconds to let us all embrace and include the many other ways people can lose their virginity? He says he loves me. A male reader, anonymous , writes 25 December How did you lose yours?

A lot of people think that having penis-in-vagina sex for the first time is how you lose your virginity. In rare cases, people have hymens that cover the entire vaginal opening, or the hole in their hymen is very small — they may need to see a doctor for a minor procedure to remove the extra tissue. Most of this article was full of just plain nonsense coming from someone who it sounds like is looking for love and is replacing it with pleasure. You should know, though, that oil-based lubes can screw with latex condoms and make them less effective.